These words came to me at that apropos time...
Wounds Can Change Your Heart
"Living in a world broken by sin, we suffer wounds of many kinds. Perhaps the most painful are not the physical ones but those of the heart. No one has power to hurt us more deeply than somebody we love, somebody we counted on to understand and support us. But there are two ways to receive wounds. One leads to larger life. The other leads straight to death, that is to destruction--of those we influence as well as of ourselves.
By grace we can receive the wounds of our friends as our Master received them--in the strength and for the glory of our heavenly Father. Being sinners ourselves, however, we need to be brought low at the cross. Nothing will do this better than some piercing heart-wound, provided we seek Christ because of it and pray Him to purify us.
There is another way--the world's way. It is anger, resentment, retaliation, retreat into pride and self-justification. These are quite natural, and quite lethal. The choice is ours.
'The wound which is borne in God's way brings a change of heart too salutary to regret, but the hurt which is borne in the world's way brings death' (2 Cor 7:10 NEB)."
~Elisabeth Elliot, of course~
It would do me good to take this saying to heart also:
"Write your hurts in the sand, and your blessings in stone."